Sample 1 Question Email Reading
This is a real reading that was completed for a client. Names have been changed to protect privacy and the client in question provided consent before I published it. This is here to give you a general idea of my style and my approach in my work.
Hi Mitchell, my boyfriend Tim who I love very much has been really distant lately. I've been trying to figure out what's wrong but it's like all we do is fight a lot. What is going on and what is going to happen? Is he cheating?
Thank you for coming to see me. I'm sorry to hear about the problems you and Tim are having and will do my best to shed some light on them and give the situation a bit more clarity.
Let me start off by saying from what I am seeing Tim is not cheating on you. I do sense the challenges that your relationship is currently facing but faithfulness is not one them. I can see mutual care concern and genuine affection for one another on both of your parts.
This however does not let Tim off the hook for the current emotional rift you are feeling between yourselves. His motivations are deep within his subconscious and are just as much a mystery to himself as they are to you. From what I can see Tim has witnessed firsthand how bad relationships can turn out, I sense with in his own life someone whom he looked, a paternal figure in his early life, which has created this sort of subconscious fuse that blows when a relationship he is in starts to become too close and intense. In the back of his mind he has a fear that if he lets himself become too close that he is setting himself up for the same heartache that he witnessed earlier in life. Knowing Tim's motivations is the key first step in helping him overcome them and restoring the closeness and warmth that you know so well from the past and that you yearn for presently. I feel that Tim is a very private person and tends to hold his cards close to his chest emotionally speaking so opening a dialog on the subject would potentially cause him to withdraw further. Approaching him with a gentle hand and sense of understanding seems to be the best approach. It will certainly take patience on your part to guide Tim to the point of self awareness in which he will realize that his deep seeded fear of repeating those negative patterns that he witnessed in the past has no foundation in reality. For some people this could be an insurmountable task but I sense what a warm, caring and genuinely kind person you are; for you this is most certainly attainable as is the closeness and warmth within your relationship that will come to bear from your efforts.
That being said this is not a burden you can carry alone. Tim needs to gather the strength to look deep within himself and conquer those baseless fears and negative thoughts that are holding him back from any kind of true and lasting happiness. If he can do this with your help and understanding I see great potential for a lasting loving and close relationship.
